Jo’s Blog
Why are you so hard on yourself? Understanding the inner critic
Why are we often so much harder on ourselves than we are on others? Explore where the inner critic comes from, why it feels so powerful, and how it influences anxiety, people-pleasing, self-worth, boundaries, and identity.
Who are you when you’re not being productive?
What happens to your sense of self when you’re not being productive, useful, or “on top of things”? This blog explores the uncomfortable link between self-worth and achievement, and why slowing down can bring up guilt, anxiety, and self-doubt. If your value has become tied to what you do, this is a gentle invitation to consider who you are underneath the performance.
How to reconnect with your self-worth (without having to earn it)
If your self-worth feels tied to achievement or approval, this blog explores how to reconnect with a steadier sense of value, one that isn’t dependent on doing more or proving yourself.
Why keeping quiet for an "easy life" isn't so easy after all
Not speaking up is not an ‘easy life’! Communication is important and needs to be honest, it doesn’t have to be aggressive or ‘confrontational’. Read on to learn more…
Why do I compare myself to others? Understanding comparison and self-worth
Comparing yourself to other people can leave you questioning your own progress, confidence and worth. This article explores why we compare ourselves, how it affects self-esteem, and how you can begin building a kinder, more compassionate relationship with yourself instead.
Boundaries Create Freedom!
Recognising where your boundaries need to be according to what’s acceptable to you, and communicating them effectively, is essential to your sense of self-respect and to your relationships.
“Small steps” to self-worth
Working towards goals? Want success in life? Start with you! Pay attention to how you think about goals and success and start small to feel your sense of self-worth grow.
A People Pleaser’s Guide to Assertiveness
Are you a people pleaser struggling to set boundaries and express your needs? This blog explores how your communication style influences your relationships and how developing assertive communication can help you break free from people-pleasing patterns. Learn how to communicate more confidently, set healthier boundaries and stay connected to yourself, even when it feels uncomfortable.
Not feeling like yourself? Signs your mental wellbeing may need attention
Have you been wondering, "Why don't I feel like myself?" Learn the early signs that your mental wellbeing may be struggling, what might be causing the change, and practical ways to reconnect with yourself before things become overwhelming.