Jo’s Blog
4 reasons to open up more
A problem shared… You are not a burden. You deserve to be cared for and supported as much as the next person. Here are four ways it can help you to open up more.
Do you know how you are?
This Mental Health Awareness Week, take some time and space to think about you and your feelings. Learn how to know how you are…
Why do I compare myself to others? Understanding comparison and self-worth
Comparing yourself to other people can leave you questioning your own progress, confidence and worth. This article explores why we compare ourselves, how it affects self-esteem, and how you can begin building a kinder, more compassionate relationship with yourself instead.
Why do I get angry so easily? Understanding what's beneath the anger
Do you find yourself wondering, "Why am I so angry?" Learn what anger is really trying to tell you, what emotions often lie beneath it, and how greater self-awareness can help you respond rather than react.
Male Mental Health
This blog is my plea to men who may be struggling to cope in life but who are not talking about it. I take a look at some statistics and share some male client experiences. #talkinghelps
Boundaries Create Freedom!
Recognising where your boundaries need to be according to what’s acceptable to you, and communicating them effectively, is essential to your sense of self-respect and to your relationships.
“Small steps” to self-worth
Working towards goals? Want success in life? Start with you! Pay attention to how you think about goals and success and start small to feel your sense of self-worth grow.
“I don’t want to go to my next session!”
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by difficult emotions in your counselling sessions, it can be understandable to not want to come.
However, having the courage to share this with your counsellor can make all the difference to your perseverance and progress.
A word about ‘endings’ in therapy
The strength of the therapeutic relationship means that ending therapy, as well as being positive, can be difficult and/or sad for clients. It’s a big deal for therapists too! ‘Bittersweet’ some may say…
Here, I reflect on valuing and nurturing the vulnerability, resilience and fragile optimism of the human spirit.
The Rocky Road to Recovery
It can be heart-breaking for clients to have experienced some progress only to suffer a setback. Hope is shattered and it feels so hard to keep going. This blog explores the concept of ‘recovery’ and helps prepare clients for a possible rocky road along the way.
A People Pleaser’s Guide to Assertiveness
Are you a people pleaser struggling to set boundaries and express your needs? This blog explores how your communication style influences your relationships and how developing assertive communication can help you break free from people-pleasing patterns. Learn how to communicate more confidently, set healthier boundaries and stay connected to yourself, even when it feels uncomfortable.
Setting Ourselves Free
How do we free ourselves to be able to live as we choose and see that as ‘successful’, regardless of what others make of it? This post embraces vulnerability and forces us to challenge the barriers we put around ourselves.
Not feeling like yourself? Signs your mental wellbeing may need attention
Have you been wondering, "Why don't I feel like myself?" Learn the early signs that your mental wellbeing may be struggling, what might be causing the change, and practical ways to reconnect with yourself before things become overwhelming.
Finding the right therapist: Why the therapeutic relationship matters
Your relationship with your therapist is unlike any other—it’s built on trust, acceptance, and collaboration. Learn why finding the right therapist matters and how this unique relationship can support your personal growth.
Unpacking your emotions: Why bottling things up doesn’t work
Keeping emotions bottled up can lead to stress, anxiety, and exhaustion. Learn why repression isn’t the answer and how therapy provides a safe space to unpack, heal, and move forward with more ease and self-compassion.